and a little chatter

My week in a nutshell...

2009-12-12T08:54:00.002-06:00

OMG it's cold. Wahhhh! I want summer back. I got up to 16 degrees this morning and it has reached a whopping 25 so far. We are actually supposed to reach 40 by this afternoon. That will feel like a heat wave. I didn't want to get out of bed this morning. Yes, I had the heat on but had turned it way down for sleeping, so I ran to the thermostat and hiked it up and ran back to bed until it warmed up some more.

Let's see, I actually did some stuff this week. On Monday my friend came and picked me up and we went and had Chinese and caught up with each other. She is also retired from General Motors and we used to carpool together (the plant is about an hour from home) for several years. I retired about 4 years before she did and was tickled when she retired because I knew we would be seeing each other more.

Oh and BTW, I did not think about my diet that day. I just enjoyed...bad me.

After I got home on Monday and picked my little table top tree up and put it back together (I forgot to lock Gizmo up),
my granddaughter surprised me with supper that she made herself (she's 12). She made chicken and rice with broccoli and it was pretty good. She said she paid attention the last time I made it for her and me. She eats like her Grandma and her Uncle Bruce. Her mother and brother are picky, picky, picky. But the three of us will eat (or at least try) anything.

So Thursday I treated my daughter to a trip to the beauty parlor with me (she never spends money on that kind of thing). I got my hair cut and she got a cut, thinning (very thick hair), a color and some highlights. She looked great and was so pleased with it. I think that may have been the best Christmas present I bought this year. We went by her job so she could show everyone and they all made over her. I enjoyed it as much as she did, I think...lol. Hey, I'm still a mom even though she's 37.

We went to Walmart after that and I spent way more than I
had planned but I got just about everything I need for our
Christmas Eve gathering. The only thing I'll get at the last
minute is the Hawaiian Bread for the Spinach Dip.

I hope everyone is having a fabulous (and warm) weekend. I know
many of you are snow bound, except you dang Floridian's that
the rest of us are jealous of.

Hugs, Joyce

More Winter/Christmas Tags

2009-12-08T17:14:00.002-06:00

Winter/Christmas Tags Today

2009-12-06T07:47:00.002-06:00

I have a few more completed and will add them in a day or two. Hope you find something you like. Hugs, Joyce

A little update...

2009-12-04T13:46:00.003-06:00

Boy, this has been a really cold week for Tennessee.
As much as I want to see snow this year, I now
remember why I like summer the best of all the seasons.

I got all my wrapping done this week and I'm very happy about that. I'm slow at it so I did a little at a time and wrapped a total of 28 packages and got them put under my daughter's Christmas tree (for our Christmas Eve fun).

Now all I have to do is buy the goodies that are on my list
for our snacking on Christmas Eve. I ordered a spiral sliced, honey baked ham which will be picked up a couple day before. My daughter makes sausage balls and rotelle dip and I will make spinach dip with Hawaiian bread (love it) and onion dip and Christmas cookies. My son is in charge of bringing dip chips and drinks and he loves to dip things into chocolate so he brings those goodies. Man, I'm getting hungry just thinking about it...lol.

I've had a hard time with psp this week. No mojo. I don't know how many tags I started and then deleted. I guess maybe I just needed a little break. I hope next week is better. I did spend some time putting a lot of tubes on discs this week. I've heard too many stories of folks who've lost everything in a crash. I really think the best thing you can have is an external hard drive...if you crash you don't lose anything.

Enough rambling for this week. Have a great weekend. Stay warm and, for some, out of the snow. Yes, that's me in the tag below...lol. Hugs,

Black Friday is here!!!!

2009-11-27T10:02:00.003-06:00

I didn't really, but I love this frog that did.

You couldn't give me enough money to hit the stores at 4 A.M. and

fight the crowds. People that do this are determined and I might get hurt. lol

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Mine was terrific.

I love having the whole family (small that it is...it's mine) together for

a meal and a lot of laughs. Good food, loving family...what more could I want.

Have a good day all and if you went to Black Friday,

I hope you got everything you wanted.

Hugs, Joyce

Happy Thanksgiving

2009-11-25T22:28:00.002-06:00

Happy Turkey Day to all my on-line friends.

Hugs, Joyce

Short note and some tags...

2009-11-21T08:29:00.002-06:00

It's hard to believe that 2009 is almost over.
Next week is Thanksgiving week and before you know
it, Christmas and 2010. Where did it go? Slow down time!
It's been a chilly week but today the sun is shining and it's
supposed to get up into the mid 60's. Nice weather. I looked
outside this morning and it dawned on me...the trees have lost
all of their leaves. When did that happen? I need to pay more attention...lol.
I'll have my 8 year old grandson for the weekend starting tonight.
My granddaughter will be with her dad this weekend so it's just me and Brandon and the cartoon channel. He's grounded so he has to stay in. Hmmmmm, now who is the punishment for? lol.
Well, that's about it for this week. Once again my exciting life
has dazzled and amazed you. No need to thank me.

tags...warning, first one is SlightAC

2009-11-13T14:09:00.003-06:00

If you would like the tag below with animated snow, please email me at

JJDolfin9@aol.com and put DND WONDERLAND in the subject line.

Veteran's Day

2009-11-11T22:44:00.001-06:00

Random Thoughts

2009-11-10T12:53:00.002-06:00

Random Thoughts for the Day:

1. I think part of a best friend's job should be to immediately clear your computer history if you die.

2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you're wrong.

3. I totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was younger.

4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.

5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?

6. Was learning cursive really necessary?

7. Map Quest really needs to start their directions on #5. I'm pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.

8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.

9. I can't remember the last time I wasn't at least kind of tired.

10. Bad decisions make good stories.

11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren't going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.

12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray? I don't want to have to restart my collection...again.

13. I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my ten-page research paper that I swear I did not make any changes to.

14. "Do not machine wash or tumble dry" means I will never wash this -- ever.

15. I hate when I just miss a call by the last ring (Hello? Hello? Damn it!), but when I immediately call back, it rings nine times and goes to voicemail. What'd you do after I didn't answer? Drop the phone and run away?

16. I hate leaving my house confident and looking good and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste.

17. I keep some people's phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.

18. My 4-year old son asked me in the car the other day "Dad what would happen if you ran over a ninja?" How the hell do I respond to that?

19. I think the freezer deserves a light as well..

20. I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Lites OR Budweiser than Kay.

Halloween's almost here...

2009-10-24T11:39:00.003-05:00

Well, I did it. I got the H1N1 from grandson. It must be true that it's a young person's illness because I really got a much, much milder case than Brandon did. Today is the first day I really feel back to normal though. To celebrate I created a couple more Halloween tags for ya. Hope you like them...hugs, Joyce

Gone too long...Halloween Tags

2009-10-15T22:51:00.003-05:00

Please forgive my absense. It seems that life got in the way. Also, my grandson has the N1H1 (Swine Flu) and I am his caregiver at night and half of each day while his mother works. This was day 2 and he seems better and his fever is better. Poor little guy has really been sick. Anyway, thought I better get some Halloween tags out before it's over...lol.

Hugs y'all, Joyce

Honoring a friend...

2009-09-28T16:50:00.003-05:00

Some tags for you....enjoy

2009-09-18T21:02:00.002-05:00

Sad news

2009-09-14T19:52:00.000-05:00

'Dirty Dancing' star Patrick Swayze dies at 57

A couple of fall tags & an early Halloween

2009-09-10T14:57:00.002-05:00

Some funny tags...

2009-09-06T09:52:00.002-05:00

Couple Tags for Sunday

2009-08-30T13:43:00.002-05:00

Tag & a note...

2009-08-23T22:53:00.004-05:00

OK, so my 8 year old g/son is here the other day and we are
discussing what he might be when he grows up. He informs
me that one of the things he's going to be is a Lesbian. WHAT???
He says that his friend told him that if you are Gay, then you
like boys but if you like girls then you are a...you guessed it...
a Lesbian. So, the logic to him was... I told him that before
he goes to school and tells this little story that he should have
a talk with his mom and ask her to explain it to him the right way.
No way was I touching that one.
(no offense meant to anyone)

Tags, one is SAC

2009-08-19T21:27:00.004-05:00

Dust if you must...

2009-08-11T09:48:00.001-05:00

Remember....a layer of dust protects the Wood beneath it. '
A house becomes a home when you can write 'I love you' on the furniture.'
I used to spend at least 8 hours every weekend making sure things were just perfect - 'in case someone came over'.
Finally I realized one day that no-one came over; they were all out living life and having fun!

NOW, when people visit, I don't have to explain the'condition' of my home They are more interested in hearing about the things I've been doing while I was away living life and having fun. If you haven't figured this out yet, please heed this advice. Life is short. Enjoy it!

Dust if you must ....... But wouldn't it be better to paint a picture or write a letter, bake cookies or a cake and lick the spoon or plant a seed, Ponder the difference between want and need?

Dust if you must,
but there's not much time . . . . With beer to drink , rivers to swim and mountains to climb , music to hear and books to read, friends to cherish and life to lead.

Dust if you must,
but the world's out there with the sun in your eyes, the wind in your hair, a flutter of snow, a shower of rain. This day will not come around, again.

Dust if you must ,
but bear in mind, old age will come and it's not kind. . And when you go - and go you must - you, yourself will make more dust!

PSP JUNKIE HERE

2009-08-02T18:23:00.003-05:00

More Tags Y'all

2009-07-29T12:24:00.002-05:00

Just Tags

2009-07-25T22:53:00.002-05:00

Happy Father's Day

2009-06-21T11:59:00.002-05:00

2009-06-15T21:38:00.002-05:00

A day for fairies...

2009-06-06T08:26:00.002-05:00

Silly Stuff

2009-05-30T08:13:00.003-05:00

Summer Daze

2009-05-27T15:40:00.001-05:00

I WON! HOW FUN!!!!!

2009-05-25T11:49:00.002-05:00

2009-05-24T09:20:00.004-05:00

2009-05-22T22:50:00.003-05:00

Just a little update & tags...

2009-05-07T17:55:00.002-05:00

Hello everyone. Well, my daughter got to come home yesterday and will be able to go back to work on Monday. WooHoo!!!!! The boss (and the owner of the company) visited her in the hospital and told her not to worry about her job, that it would be there. Just get well. She was relieved and so was I. The next bit of good news... the g/kids went home. I love my grandchildren to pieces but at this stage of my life I should be playing shuffleboard and bingo and thinking about my next trip to the beach. LOL. They were good though and I'm sure they are as glad to be back home as I am.

AND, to make my day complete, the sun is shining for the first time in forever. Of course, they are predicting more rain for tomorrow, but this is a nice change from all the rain and flooding we have had over the last week or so. It was in the 80's today too. I actually ran my a/c for a while today.

I'm sorry to say that I didn't make any Mother's Day tags. It's just been to hectic to think about it. But, I do hope that all the mother's out there have a fantastic weekend and are spoiled to death. I know I'm expecting my son to spoil me a bit. I'll give my daughter a break this year. (hehehe) I did pick up a set of candles for the kids to give to her for Mother's Day. They made cards for her while they were here.

That's it for now. I'm just resting up before I start tackling this apartment. It really needs a good cleaning now and I'm so slow and rest a lot when I'm doing housework so it will take me a couple of days to do what needs doing.

Bye for now...

Good news...and a tag

2009-05-05T15:06:00.003-05:00

I just wanted to thank everyone for the kind words and prayers for my daughter (and me). She is doing much better and will not have to have surgery. They took the tube out and started her on liquids today and plan to give her a regular meal in the morning if she does well with the liquids. Things seem to be passing through OK (I never thought I would be excited about my grown daughter pooing..lol) but they will x-ray again in the morning to be sure. She might get to come home Wednesday if all goes well. I will try to get around to everyone after she gets home and my darling grandchildren go home. Oh, and after I rest...lol.

Big hugs,

Prayers again

2009-05-03T12:48:00.002-05:00

Just a very short note...
My daughter is back in the hospital with a problem related to the emergency surgery she had back in February. She currently is dealing with a tube in her nose and down to her stomach. If all else fails, she will have to endure more surgery. Please pray for Vicki that this can be taken care of without further surgery. I have the kids so I wouldn't mind a little prayer for me also. (hehe)
Hugs, Joyce

From old to elegant...

2009-04-29T12:22:00.003-05:00

Nothing new today. Just wanted to get a couple of tags out. These were both entered in my graphic group's little contest called "Show Me Whatcha' Got". They didn't do any good but I had fun making them. I really love the old bitties. Could it be that I relate? LOL.

The name of the Scrap Kit that we had to use was 'Casual Elegance' and so I chose that saying for this old time beauty. That era was really about elegant clothing and big hats.

It's raining a nice slow, steady rain today. My yard was mowed yesterday just in time for the rain to green it up some more. They keep our yards looking pretty good though. This is actually the second mowing this year. Seems early, but it really needed it. All the trees are leaved out and green is everywhere. Welcome Summer!!!

Who will leave American Idol tonight? If I were the one to decide it would have to be Mat. It's getting harder and harder to see them leave. They are all so talented this year. I still think Adam will win it all, but man can that Danny put a song across too. And Allison is amazing for just turning 17. AND...Kris has gone from nothing to great. What a transition he has made. Like I said, it's a hard one. They will all have great careers in the music business.

My siggy was also a challenge in my group. We had to do a blinkie with polka dots in it somewhere. Don't the stawberries look good? I hope everyone is having a great week.

Hugs,

2009-04-26T12:13:00.002-05:00

Lovin' this weather. 80's and sunny. Like I said before...'that's what I'm talkin' about".

I finally got my hair cut on Friday and does it feel better. I always put it off until I can't stand it anymore. I told my hairdresser not to be afraid to cut. Just cut it short and get me ready for summer. I'm very happy with it, as always. She's a really good hairdresser for a rural town beauty shop.

Well, I'm off to head out into the sunshine with my book and a tall glass of green tea. As warm as it is in the sun, I'm glad I have an umbrella (so I won't burn myself). I see a nice breeze blowing out there though, so I'll bet it's comfortable. I hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend. Hugs,

Guess what I've got on my mind...

2009-04-22T17:33:00.002-05:00

Can't help dreaming about sitting on the deck of a lovely beach house at St. George Island, Florida. When my husband was alive (and we were together) we used to rent a house every year with friends and family all sharing the cost. We would end up right on the beach in a 4 bedroom house for about $400.00 per couple for a week. Things are too tight for everyone this year but I'm trying to work my magic on a smaller beach house and propositioning my kids to maybe go later in the summer. St. George Island is in the Florida panhandle and is a lovely place to just relax and enjoy the dolphins and the beach. I also love Sanibel Island, which is in South Florida near Ft. Meyers and Naples. It just got to be too long of a road trip and so I haven't been for several years now. Anyway, I'm an Aquarius and feel like I'm part of the sea. I guess lot's of folks feel that way.

We've had great weather the last few days and that has spawned some Spring fever I guess. I've been able to get outside and enjoy my back yard table and the wonderful fresh air. The g/kids hardly hit the front door when they want to get outside and I can't blame them.

BTW, I get my 'rat' hair cut this Friday. I can't wait...lol. I hope everyone is having a great week and able to get outside some. Hugs to all...

April Showers

2009-04-19T10:49:00.003-05:00

It's dark and rainy today. A very good day to pile up with a good movie or a book. A pj kind of day when you don't want to get dressed and can think of no reason why you should. I love days like this every once in a while.

My son stopped in a little while ago and brought me a big roasted chicken salad. Yummy. It looks so good. I'll have that for lunch. He's good to his mommy. I sure can't complain about the way my kids treat me. My daughter called earlier and said she was making a big breakfast for her and the kids and did I want a plate. I declined because it's raining pretty good and there is no sense in sending one of the kids out in the rain to bring me breakfast. It sure was nice of her though.

Is anyone else having trouble with Dashboard. It keeps locking up on me. I know DB was blaming his computer for that type of problem but I don't know if it was Dashboard or not. At this rate I will fall way behind again.

I guess that's all for now. Nothing new here. I really just wanted to get a tag out to you folks that collect them. I love the little girl and the bee. Have a good Sunday everyone. Big hugs...

2009-04-17T10:56:00.001-05:00

It's been another quiet week for me here in Middle Tennessee. The weather has been getting progressively nicer each day and today promises to be sunny and 75 degrees. Now, that's what I'm talkin' about. That means me and my current book will be in the back yard before long.

My friend (and casino partner) had surgery recently and her wound has developed an infection that put her back in the hospital twice and caused a little more surgery. Now she is home but has a wound vac on her belly (like my daughter had when her appendix ruptured). We were hoping to take a trip to Mississippi this month, but it looks like that won't be an option. I just hope she starts to heal soon. She is very discouraged. Tomorrow is her birthday and her kids have planned a big party. I hope she is able to enjoy it.

My grandson Brandon (who I watch after school) was watching a cartoon yesterday afternoon and said "Hey Grandma, his hair looks just like your gray hair". I looked to see he was talking about a long haired cartoon rat. WHAT?? OK, it's time to get a haircut and some product. Kids will tell it like it is, won't they.

I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend My siggy was made by Nancy (Donna's sister) at Capt'n Nancy blog. Thank you so much Nancy. That was so sweet of you.

2009-04-14T12:15:00.003-05:00

I had the strangest dream last night. I was talking to God about some of the stupid things I've done in my life and how I wish I could start over with the knowledge I now have. He said "instead of starting over, how about I give you the opportunity to 'do over' 20 instances in your life that you wish you had handled differently". I was elated and asked if I could have some time to make my choices and, of course, He said yes.

The rest of the dream was the worse struggle I have ever encountered. I sat down (at the computer, of course) and started making a list of those moments in my life that bother me and I wish I had handled in a different way. As my list reached 100 and then 200 items, I realized that there was no way I could choose just 20 and started working on talking God into increasing the number he offered me.

The items were mostly small things...a poorly constructed or thought out statement, a harsh word to someone, a white lie I wish I hadn't told etc. But all are in my head (some for years and years) and some nights I lay in bed and think about them and they loom over me like a fog. The dream ended with no resolution, just regret that I can't change the things I don't like about my past. All I can do is try not to create any more of those moments that haunt me.

Hugs,

Change of pace...

2009-04-13T13:59:00.003-05:00

I hope everyone had a nice Easter weekend (whether you celebrate Easter or not). I had a nice one with the g/kids enjoying the candy I got them and the Easter egg hunt at a friends for the little ones.

It seems that this is going to be a rough 'severe weather' season. We are under a tornado watch yet again. This one is until 8:00 p.m. I hope it just rains and passes us by. The last bout was so bad for so many people.

Well, I just wanted to get some tags out and say hello. I have been trying to catch up with everyone. If I didn't comment, it's not because I didn't visit. I'm just not taking the time to comment on every one, every time.

Hugs to all, Joyce

2009-04-10T22:35:00.002-05:00

Today was a day for severe weather here in TN. I spent a great deal of the day in my safe spot with Gizmo. My county was very lucky though and we only had straight line winds, hail and torrential rain. We were under a tornado watch and/or warning for a good portion of the day. Two lives were lost in TN today, that of a young mother and her 9 week old infant. Very sad.

Aside from that, I just want to say Happy Easter to all of my friends that celebrate this holiday. I hope you have wonderful weather and lot's and lot's of good times. One last Easter tag for you, plus a love tag.

Hugs to all, Joyce

OK! Here's a couple little Easter tags...

2009-04-07T23:05:00.001-05:00

No Easter Ones...Just Not in the Mood...

2009-04-06T16:26:00.002-05:00

Waiting on the (predicted) snow showers for this afternoon and tomorrow morning. According to the weather man, TN hasn't had any snow in April since 1977. Wierd weather.

Hugs, Joyce

It's a blinkie kind of day...

2009-04-04T10:45:00.003-05:00

Looks like I went crazy with the blinkies today. I've been enjoying my PSP a lot this week. I hope you folks that collect are finding something you like. This is going to be one of those days that I will have to spend outside. It is supposed to get to the mid 70's so me and my current
J.D. Robb book will be heading out to the patio table shortly. Now, let's talk about Monday. Would you believe they are talking about the possibility of snow. Freakin' unbelievable!!!!!!

Hugs and enjoy your weekend!

Spread Your Wings...

2009-04-03T14:44:00.002-05:00

Have a great weekend everyone!

Joyce

Religious Easter and Tulips

2009-04-02T12:36:00.002-05:00

I picked you a daisy today...

2009-04-01T15:21:00.001-05:00

Tags but not much chatter...

2009-03-31T11:23:00.003-05:00

A note to remember...click on images before saving (for best image possible).

Hello everyone. I've been dragging my feet about doing (or reading) entries lately. AND feeling mighty guilty about it. Hey, that's not right. This should be fun. It shouldn't feel like a chore. Because of that I have decided to only add tags for a while (for you folks that collect them) and maybe do an entry if something exciting happens to talk about (not likely lol). I will catch up on reading your entries once in a while. I love you all and really don't want to miss anything you folks talk about. So don't count me out. I have noticed that several bloggers have backed up quite a bit and some have even quit altogether. I don't know if Facebook (which I sincerely don't get) has taken over or if they are just feeling like I feel right now.

Anyway, that's my story. I hope you all understand. Have a great rest of the week.

Hugs

A little rain and a bad mood...

2009-03-26T17:13:00.002-05:00

If you will click on this tag you will get a much better size for saving...

We sure have had a lot of rain in the past couple of days. It's not raining right now but it's missing a heck of a chance. It's very dark and dreary out. They are predicting possible storms for Friday and Saturday. It's just that time of year. How does the song go... "When you see clouds upon the hill, you soon will see crowds of daffodils. So if it's raining, have no regrets. Because it isn't raining rain you know. It's raining violets". So, it's OK with me.

For you American Idol fans...
Weren't there some wonderful performances last night. Adam was a standout as usual. When he finished singing my daughter called me and said she wanted to marry him and have his children. LOL. I'm looking for either Megan or Michael to be leaving the show tonight. We'll see. AND only one more episode of ER after tonight. I hope TNT keeps running the re-runs because I could watch every episode over and over again. Survivor was doing a re-cap of the first 15 days last night. My grandson called to tell me not to bother watching it 'cause it's stuff we already know about. I can't believe he is into that show. He'll be 8 in June. The other day he brought my mail in and I noticed his jeans were unbuttoned and I could see his underwear. When I pointed it out he said he was thinking about being a rapper and just wanted to try it out. OMG! I fixed his pants and told him he had plenty of time to figure it out. LOL.

I've been in a bad mood all day today. I think it started when Gizmo decided to wake me up this morning. I was so not ready to get up and it wasn't quite daylight yet. I had a fretful night and could have used a couple more hours sleep but she wasn't having any of it. After fussing at her a dozen times, I finally got up and hit the shower (thinking that would improve the way I was feeling). NOT! Giz has tested me all day...into one thing and then another. My kids got me a nice wall clock for the living room for my Birthday and it has a pendulum. If I don't keep a good eye on Gizmo she climbs everything she can trying to get to that pendulum. Grrrrr! I finally got the fly swatter down today and (mostly) let her hear the sound it makes. It deters her for a minute or two. As a matter of fact, I better go see what she's into right now. It's way too quiet. LMBO! Have a good Friday and weekend everyone.

Picture Day

2009-03-23T11:36:00.005-05:00

This is the photo I took of my neighbor across the street riding last week.

I had to zoom so it's not the best.

Here is a shot of the gazebo in the apartment complex.

The trees are called Bradford Pears (because of shape not fruit)

and are already losing their white blossoms. A slight breeze makes

it look like it's snowing.

Interesting information at the gravesite of Meriwether Lewis.

The monument over his grave.

Beautiful Redbud trees (even though they are purple/pink)

out on the Nachez Trace Parkway.

No telephone or power poles or billboards. Wonderful drive.

Not sure what these are but they are pretty.

Here is #1 Son, who took me for this fun ride on Sunday.

Such a good son.

Small waterfall and nature walk.

Dogwood tree in bloom. I love it when the Dogwood are blooming.

That is sooooo Spring!

Information about the Nachez Trace.

Have a wonderful week everyone.

Hugs,

Just a note or two...

2009-03-19T10:56:00.001-05:00

Would you believe I got a bit of a sunburn yesterday? Honest, I did. It was such a beautiful day so I took a book and a lawn chair and headed out back. I was really only out there for an hour or so, but that's all it took to get a little red in the face. It was 76 degrees and sunny. Today is only going to get to 59 and rain. Gizmo is disappointed because she was sure enjoying having the doors and windows open. It's just too cool today for that. She tried to get me up at a little after 5:00 this morning. WHAT!!! It wasn't even starting to get light out yet.

My neighbor who owns the field across the street had his horse out yesterday for a good run. I really enjoyed watching them. I haven't seen him riding since last fall so I'm sure the horse was enjoying the outing as much as the rider was. And, of course, I was getting a lot of enjoyment out of it too. I can smell Spring in the air and can hardly wait for Summer to emerge. I've been looking at the web cams of Panama City Beach, which is filled with Spring Breaker's right now and also St. George Island. I've vacationed there a lot and really love the privacy of having a beach house for a week. Here is the link to the web cams if you are interested in checking them out...http://www.beachview.com/160beachview.htm.

My daughter has some orientation to go to this afternoon for her new job so I will have Brandon (7 yr. old) for a few hours. Since the weather isn't going to be great we will probably take this opportunity to play games. he likes Parcheesi (which I recently bought) and for cards he likes Rummy (which he is really pretty good at for his age). We'll have fun no matter what we play. He likes winning but is a pretty good sport when he doesn't. LOL. He will be here soon so I better close this out. Hope everyone is having a great week.

Hugs...

Shopping and a History Lesson...

2009-03-16T12:04:00.004-05:00

Another weekend gone and my kitchen is once again restocked. Yes, I did the Wally World thingy yesterday with my faithful son lifting and lugging. It may sound silly, but I really look forward to that once-a-month trip with Son. He is a great shopper and bargain hunter (even for groceries). He's always pointing out that if I get this instead of that it will cost me less. He also has a way of finding unusual items that I would never have even noticed, let alone bought. We really do have a good time together, no matter what we are doing.

Next weekend Son and I are going to ride out to the Nachez Trace Parkway and take some 'Spring' pictures. So much is blooming now. It's a historic place as well. I've written about this before but for any new readers, it is where Meriwether Lewis (of the Lewis and Clark Expedition) is buried. A monument was erected by the state of Tennessee in 1848, after Lewis’ remains were first exhumed and examined to be sure it was his grave!

What Is The Natchez Trace Parkway?
The 444-mile Natchez Trace Parkway commemorates an ancient trail that connected southern portions of the Mississippi River, through Alabama, to salt licks in today's central Tennessee. Today, visitors can experience this National Scenic Byway and All-American Road through driving, hiking, biking, horseback riding, and camping. Aren't I just a wealth of information today? LOL.

Well, that's all I have today. Catch ya later in the week. Have a good one.

2009-03-13T14:36:00.002-05:00

OK Mother Nature!!! That's just about enough fooling around at our expense. Tuesday we had 80 degrees and a yard full of Robins and Thursday we had sleet and ice hanging in the trees. Let's stop all this messing around and bring on Spring. Everyone is ready for it I think.

Not much going on this week to report. I was sad to hear about Linda losing her sweet kitty Gabi. Gayla recently lost her beautiful dog also. My heart goes out to both of you. I've been there and it's heartbreaking. {{{{Hugs}}}} to both of you. Still sending prayers to Donna who had surgery this week. And let's not forget about the folks in Samson, Alabama who had their own tragedy happen this week. Randy from
My HANDS are shaking and, my FAITH is broken. is in that area and knew some of the folks who were killed.

My man George Clooney made an appearance on ER last night. He's still as handsome as ever. There's just something about that man that lights my fire...LOL, no fool like an old fool, I guess.

I hope everyone has a terrific weekend. It's Spring break for the schools here so I will be spending some time with my grandson. I promised I would play some games with him while he is off. Jackie is spending the week with her dad so I will be missing her this week.

HUGS,

Did anyone watch Castle last night?

2009-03-10T10:44:00.002-05:00

The tag was part of a challenge in my graphics group. All we got was the cardboard frame. I don't know what took me to the elepants, but here they are. Hope it is someone's taste. LOL.

OK for you reader's of mystery novels, this was very cool. I watched the premier of 'Castle' on ABC last night. The story is about a writer who is asked to help look into crimes that seem to be mimicking his novels. It's kind of a who-done-it with a comedic twist. Anyway, there is a scene with this writer playing poker with some other writers and who is sitting across the table from him but James Patterson. The real James Patterson playing himself. I don't know when I have enjoyed a scene on TV more. The show is a tad silly but I will probably continue to watch in the hopes of another cameo of Mr. Patterson (who is my favorite mystery writer for sure).

*Note to Ken (Bucko)...I finished Scarpetta today and I have to admit, it was pretty good. I guess I was just in a slump from having to interrupt the story for a couple of weeks.*

Since I'm talking about TV, I'm lovin' American Idol so far this year. There is some awesome talent and the twist of having a final 13 instead of 12 was great. So far my faves are the young red-headed gal and the guy with glasses who recently lost his wife. It will be fun watching them get whipped into shape and improve with each week.

I'm also a fan of 'Survivor' and since the new season started while I was living at my daughter's, my 7 yr. old grandson has jumped on board. I laughed out loud when he called me after the show on Thursday night to say he was upset that the bus driver lady (the oldest player) was voted off. She was his favorite but since she's now gone he is rooting for (his words) the pretty blond lady that flirts all the time. What have I started? LOL.

For lack of something to watch on TV on Saturday night, I pulled out my DVD of Robin Williams in 'Patch Adams'. If you haven't seen that movie, it's a must see. It's a true story and Williams does a great job in it. I don't know why I'm on the entertainment trail of thought, and I have certainly rambled enough so, until next time...

Hugs, Joyce

Hugs, Joyce

A beautiful Saturday...

2009-03-08T15:27:00.001-05:00

Saturday was the most beautiful Spring day. We took the kids to the park for some fun in the sun and then had a cook out in my daughter's back yard. It was 75 degrees and the burgers, dogs and chops tasted wonderful. Today we are in the windy city (no not Chicago). The clouds have moved in and the wind is fierce. It's still very warm, but not a nice day to be outside. These little tastes of Spring really spoil a person. It will be back in the 40's and 50's after Tuesday, but it sure was nice to open up the house and air it out for a day or two.

Would you believe I'm still trying to finish Patricia Cornwell's 'Scarpetta'? I put it down when everything happened with my daughter and now I seem to be in Scarpetta Hell. I just can't seem to get back into it. I ordered the first two Twilight books for my friends daughter and am tempted to try to read one of them. Naw...I'll let the 14 year old read them and give me a book report...LOL.
I have a new Patterson book and a new J. D. Robb book calling my name on the bookshelf so I guess I will force myself to finish Scarpetta.

Well, I just wanted to check in on this Sunday afternoon. Remember to keep Donna from http://dsdesignsandotherthings.blogspot.com/ in your prayers. She has surgery on Tuesday and is having some anxiety surrounding her situation.

Have a good week everyone.

Hugs, Joyce

Good news (for a change)...

2009-03-05T11:53:00.000-06:00

I cannot begin to tell you how happy I am today. You all know what my daughter has been going through. I think I told you that on Friday they took off the wound vac...well, on Monday at her visit with the surgeon, he put it back on. He wants it on for at least another week and will re-evaluate on her next visit this coming Monday. Vicki was watching children to make ends meet (since she was laid off last year) and, of course, she can't do that now due to the surgery. On Tuesday she had an interview for a job keeping the books for a 'chicken farm' here in our county. (Yes, I said 'chicken farm'.) Anyway, she went to the interview with that wound vac and tube hanging out and there were 16 other interviews for the same job. They called her today and she got the job. I couldn't have been more surprised. The best part is that it will be part time until the end of April, (which is perfect for her recovery) and then full time. Another prayer answered.

OK. So I got my big snow on Monday and it is just about gone now. I think God must have snuck it in for me because now the temps are rising. Today it will be 66 and by the weekend we are looking at the mid 70's. Go figure. Is it Spring or not? Only time will tell. I will be glad to open up the apartment and let some of these old germs out. I've coughed up a lung or two this week but I am feeling much, much better.

Remember to change your clocks on Saturday night. It seems too early, but I guess not. I do enjoy the longer days when the weather is warm. It just seems like this school year has gone so fast. The kids have a Spring break coming up too. My granddaughter will spend hers with her dad (only 60 miles away) and Brandon will have fun with the new little boys that moved in across from his apartment a month ago. Me? I'm starting to think about taking a trip to Tunica, MS and play a little slots. It's been a while and a couple of days down there sounds like a really good idea. We'll see.

I hope everyone is having a good week. Until next time...
Hugs, Joyce

God must have thought I earned it...

2009-03-02T15:04:00.002-06:00

I've been hoping for one nice snow before winter left us and yesterday morning I woke up to a winter wonderland. It was beautiful and the kids had a ball. Today, there are only traces of it left, but I got my big snow. Hooray!!!

Hugs, Joyce

I'm still among the living...

2009-02-28T17:49:00.001-06:00

Thanks to everyone who sent prayers our way for my daughter. She is recovering well after a very difficult time. On Friday the wound vac was removed and she now has the freedom of 'wet packs' instead of carrying around that machine and tubing everywhere. I ended up being the caregiver because the person that was doing it had to leave to tend to her mother (who also ended up having emergency surgery a couple of days after my daughter came home - WHAT??). Anyway, I moved in and was there until Friday, when the visiting nurse sent me home because I ended up getting a bad cold and could not risk giving it to Vicki. Well, my cold proved to be walking pneumonia so I am working to get well now too. I actually don't feel that bad, but I can tell there is a problem when I try to do too much and can't get my breath.

Guess what? We are awaiting some snow tonight. I'm so excited. I hope I'm up to see it when it hits. Of course, they are only calling for 1 to 3 inches and I'm sure it won't stick around very long as the temps are moving back up in the next few days. That's OK though. I will get my camera out and hope I get a few photo's in the morning while it's here. They are saying it may snow as far South as Birmingham. Welcome March!!!

Well, I just wanted to let everyone know that I am thinking about you all and grateful for your prayers and friendship. Hopefully things will return to normal (whatever that is) soon.

Hugs, Joyce

UPDATE ON DAUGHTER

2009-02-12T06:49:00.000-06:00

Yesterday they took Vicki off of the oxygen and removed her drainage tube. They also introduced a liquid diet - she had not eaten or drank anything but ice chips since Saturday. They also changed the wound vac and brought her one that she will be taking home with her. She should be able to come home this weekend but will have a home health nurse come in 3 times a week to change the wound vac out and assess the wound. We have a friend who has volunteered to move in and help with the house and the kids until she is fully recovered. (Thank you Angie.)

I am very tired, but very relieved that things are progressing well. The surgeon calls Vicki his miracle for this year. No one knows why she didn't die, but I do. Thanks for all the prayers that have been sent up for her.

Hugs, Joyce

Requesting Prayer

2009-02-10T09:27:00.002-06:00

Just a very short note to ask for prayer for my daughter. Sugar has put a message on The Call for Support Blog...Thank you Sugar.
Vicki was nursing what she thought was a stomach virus for several days. On Sat. she went to the clinic because 'she just didn't feel right'. Long story short, her appendix had ruptured. The damage was severe. They removed a section of her colon and small intestine. She is improving but her oxygen level remains too low to remove the oxygen and the open wound is requiring a wound vac. Please, if you are a prayer warrior, she sure could use lot's of prayer.
Thanks, Joyce

Just a Couple of Tags

2009-02-05T22:50:00.002-06:00

I'm taking some time off of blogger so for a while I will only be adding some tags now and then and not doing any writing or reading. I have found that, while I love you all, I am spending far more time sitting at the computer than I want to. So, I'm going to regroup, start doing my exercises again, reading more and taking better care of my house and Gizmo. Can you say addicted to the computer??? It's funny, but it's not. So, watch for a tag now and then and I will be back at it before you know it.

Hugs, Joyce

SNOW PLEASE...

2009-02-04T11:06:00.003-06:00

I had a lovely birthday and I appreciate all the nice birthday comments. Thank you all.

Several people have mentioned my profile picture. Of course, it is a photo of my mother holding me. My oldest son resurrected it a couple of years ago and had it made into an 8 X 10 and framed for me as a Mother's Day gift. As you can see, I also made a tag out of it. I do love this picture and often wish I had gotten one taken of me and my daughter when she was a baby. I don't know why I didn't think to do that. Oh well! She's 36 now so I guess it's too late for that kind of shot. LOL.

The weather has turned cold again. We had several days in the upper 50's and even the low 60's but today it won't get out of the 20's and tonight is predicted to be 13 degrees. This has been a crazy year with the yo-yo temperatures, not to mention the ice storms and snow in lot's of places. I still wish we'd see one good snow before Spring. I know, I'm nuts.

When I was a young kid I saw lot's of snow living in Germany, Switzerland and in the states in Connecticut and Washington DC (military brat). But my dad retired to Florida when I was a young teen and as an adult I lived in California and here in TN. So my kids and grand kids have been snow deprived and it's been many years for me as well. Now I'm really a warm weather person and am perfectly happy when it is between 80 and 90 degrees, but if it has to get cold, the least it could do is snow a little for us. LOL.

Until next time...have a good rest of the week.

Hugs, Joyce

HAPPY GROUNDHOG'S DAY AND....

2009-02-02T08:35:00.002-06:00

TO
Yep, I have the distinction of being born on Groundhog's Day in 1946 in Bangor, Maine in the middle of a blizzard. OH, the stories that were told about getting my mother to the hospital that night. LOL. My children and grandchildren gathered around yesterday and lavished me with gifts and lot's of fattening chocolate cake and strawberry cheese cake as well as two kinds of sinful ice cream. That was followed by the Super Bowl so I had a very nice day.

HUGS

A POEM FOR US OLDER FOLKS

2009-01-31T11:48:00.001-06:00

My forgetter's getting better,

But my rememberer is broke

To you that may seem funny But,

to me, that is no joke

For when I'm 'here' I'm wondering

If I really should be 'there'

And, when I try to think it through,

I haven't got a prayer!

Oft times I walk into a room,

Say 'what am I here for?'

I wrack my brain, but all in vain!

A zero, is my score.

At times I put something away

Where it is safe, but, Gee!

The person it is safest from

Is, generally, me!

When shopping I may see someone,

Say 'Hi' and have a chat,

Then, when the person walks away

I ask myself, 'who the heck was that?'

Yes, my forgetter's getting better

While my rememberer is broke,

And it's driving me plumb crazy

And that isn't any joke.

Short note and a couple of tags

2009-01-29T20:29:00.002-06:00

Hello y'all. I just don't know where the time is going this week. Can you believe I have actually been busy? LOL. I've gotten a lot of personal stuff done around the house, visited my dentist for some minor work, took Gizmo to the Vet to have her weighed and put her on a diet. Yep, I guess I have been over feeding her and before it got out of hand I wanted some advise. One thing is...she doesn't get enough exercise. She's a lazy butt. My grandson has promised to spend some time playing with her every afternoon. He can wind her up better than anyone else. For her own health, I don't want her to get too over weight.

Today I got to have lunch with a couple of old friends that I haven't seen for quite a while. We had the best time and promised we wouldn't let time get away from us again. We made plans to go to a town closer to the plant we all worked in and meet up with some other friends over there sometime in February. I am looking forward to that as well.

That's it for now. I hope everyone is having a great week and looking forward to a better weekend. I know a lot of folks are dealing with weather issues and power outages. My prayers are with them all.

Hugs, Joyce

Just a lazy weekend...

2009-01-25T16:00:00.001-06:00

I'm feeling better today and because I am not taking so many pain meds, my head is a bit clearer too. Hooray! I was starting to feel like a 'drug store junkie'. I need to improve quite a lot before next weekend because my oldest son is taking me out to eat on Saturday and the kids are celebrating my birthday with me on Sunday. My actual birthday is Monday but Sunday is just better for everyone. I have the distinction of being born on Groundhog's Day. I'll let you know if I see my shadow. Oh wait, that's not me, that's the Groundhog. lol.

It's been cold this weekend and I was glad I didn't have to go anywhere. I've just been lazy for the most part. I did set up the crock pot yesterday and filled it with green beans, potatoes, onions, mushrooms and brats. Boy is it good. I've eaten on it twice and my daughter ate a plate full a little while ago when she came to visit for a while. Oh, and I called my neighbor and gave him a plate. It was nice to feed him for a change. I don't cook very much living alone, but I used to be a pretty good cook.

That's about it. Gizmo is sleeping on my printer so I think I will remove her and she and I will watch the news in my recliner for a while. I hope everyone has a good week with fabulous weather.

Hugs, Joyce

Local News Mostly...

2009-01-22T12:41:00.001-06:00

I'm here. Well, sort of. I've had some health issues that have kind of kept me off the computer and away from my life in general. I hate feeling like I can't put one foot in front of the other, and that is the way the medication I have been taking, makes me feel. Sometimes the cure is worse than the disease. So, while I have kind of a clear head, I thought I'd post a short entry.

Since I've been housebound and kind of out of it, I really don't have much to write about. I did watch the Inauguration off and on Tuesday. I've been through several of them over the years and I cannot remember any of them being so BIG. I hope the people have not put him so high on a pedestal that he cannot live up to the expectations put on him.

Before I retired, I worked at the GM (at that time Saturn) plant in Spring Hill, TN. The big news from there this week is that a Snowy Owl has been sighted on the property. I guess it is extremely rare to sight this bird anywhere, but especially in this part of the country. Anyway, GM was having trouble with bird watchers (from other states as well as TN) sneaking onto the property to get a glimpse of the owl. My friends who are still working there were getting a real kick out of the attention the owl was getting. Anyway, I loved reading something about GM other than what a mess they are in.

If you see a little blond haired boy with glasses in the new Aflac add with the duck...he is a local boy from my town named Caden. I'm sure he will upstage the duck (at least here in this town). He is a real cutie. So much for my local news reports...lol.

I hope everyone is doing well. As always, tags are snaggable and you may have them tagged or tag them yourself. Have a great weekend all.

Hugs, Joyce

Mostly just tags...

2009-01-19T10:39:00.001-06:00

I'm sorry for being so absent, but I'm just not up to par and don't feel like sitting here at the computer for very long. I've got several tags built up and did want to share them so that's what I'm doing. As always, they are snag only and you may tag them or have someone tag them. One is gloomy and one is Valentiny...is that a word?

Today we honor Martin Luther King Jr. Tomorrow his dream of equality comes full circle with the inauguration of Barack Obama. I pray that the history books not only recognize this event but talk about what a fabulous job this president did to get our country back on track.. You see, I have a dream also.

Enjoy your week everyone. Hugs, Joyce

Seems like I'm always complaining...

2009-01-15T14:57:00.005-06:00

I'm just not feeling well and so I won't bore you with my whining. I just wanted to put a couple
of tags out and a couple of pictures of my computer pal, Gismo. She either sits on the back of my chair or on my printer while I'm on the puter. Isn't she sweet though.

Hugs, Joyce

My weekend...

2009-01-12T11:36:00.003-06:00

Baby it's cold outside. The weather folks predicted this to be the coldest week so far this winter and so far they hit it on the head. It's supposed to be in the single digits one night this week. Brrrr. Except for wanting to see some snow, I can't wait until summer. I spent most of yesterday laying down with a sick headache and I really believe the cold weather had a hand in it. I'm just a warm weather girl I guess.

OK, I have to talk about the playoff game on Saturday. My TN Titan's lost and so our season is over. Talk about some disappointed fans. Now, I'll tell you my story... it's the end of the 3rd. quarter and the power goes off. OMG!!!! I could NOT believe it. Someone hit a power pole and here I am, in the dark, trying not to cuss, but on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Lot's of people paid $1500 for a ticket to this game and I made fun of them. What I would have given for one of those thickets right then. lol. Anyway, I missed the entire 4th. quarter and had to call my son when the power came back on to see who won. He answered the phone "I don't want to talk about it". So, I knew without another word that we had lost. Wah wah wah. We came so close this year. It was a good season anyway and I'm proud of the team.

I listened to President Bush's press conference this morning. I know he made some mistakes (like all our presidents do) but I do not think he was nearly as bad as some people do. Now let's see if our new president can work the wonders he has promised in the next four years. He has several extreme situations that have to be addressed immediately. I don't envy him the job ahead. Like I said, we need to pray for our leaders and our country.

I hope everyone has a pleasant and warm week. I know there is a lot of blizzard type weather out there. Stay safe.

Hugs, Joyce

Just another day...

2009-01-07T16:03:00.001-06:00

This week is flying by for some reason. I haven't really done anything special. It rained for three straight days and the sun finally came out this afternoon. It good to see but it's still pretty cold out. Lot's of you are looking for Spring already. Me? I'd like to see at least one nice snow before that happens. I know some of you are sick of snow but we get so little here in Tennessee that everyone get's really excited at the slightest chance for some of the white stuff.

Monday my daughter came down and helped me do some serious cleaning. I straightened closets and cleaned up the files and drawers in my computer desk while she mopped my floors and vacuumed and cleaned my bathroom for me. I so appreciated the help. I dusted and did my laundry today. Now all that's left to do is light the candles, put the music on and take a nice long bath. LOL.

I retired from the GM plant that started out by building Saturn's back in 1990. I was very fortunate to get a job there before production was even started. I only worked for GM for 15 years and was concerned about taking the early retirement package in 2005, but I was starting to see the handwriting on the wall, so I did. Now that the stock is literally worthless, I'm glad I bailed when I did. The week before Christmas they handed walking papers to a substantial number of non-union workers again. A couple of my good friends were really blind-sided by it. One in particular will be 60 next month and is beside herself with worry. She needs a job and more than that, she needs health insurance (since GM is not providing her any). Once again, I got out just in time (as I have very, very reasonable health insurance with GM until I turn 65). Anyway, I said all that to say that we really need to pray for our country and our leaders. If something isn't done soon I don't know what will happen to all these people that are without employment.

On that note, I will get off of here and feed Gizmo (and myself). Of course, she is first. The main reason being I can't stand to eat with her watching me with those big eyes as if she is starving to death. lol. Have a good rest of the week.

Hugs, Joyce

A book, a haircut and Tara the elephant...

2009-01-03T12:49:00.002-06:00

It's the weekend and it is back in the 60's here, but very gray out. We are supposed to get thunder storms this afternoon and tomorrow. Can't say I mind that too much as long as I don't have to get out in it. There is nothing like a good storm and a good book and a lazy day.

Speaking of good books, I finally finished "Cross Country" by James Patterson. I can't remember who asked about it but here is what I thought. There is just no way Patterson can write a bad book. This one is no exception. It's full of action and surprises and, as usual, a surprise ending. The only complaint I have about it is that most of the story takes place in Africa with Alex Cross hunting a very bad serial killer. To me that takes away from the whole Alex Cross family thing. I feel like I know his children and his grandmother, not to mention his best friend and current girlfriend. How funny is that. That group plays a very, very small part in this story. That being said, yes I liked the book and it held my attention right to the end. It is, of course, a must read for all you Patterson fans. Now I'm reading "Scarpetta" by Patricial Cornwell. It's a pretty thick book and I'm a slow reader soooo. BTW, Patterson has two more books coming out. One in February and one is April. The April one is a new "Woman's Murder Club" book. I have already pre-ordered both.

Yesterday my daughter and I went and had our hair cut. For me it was just another haircut but for Vicki it was the end of the long hair look. They pulled her hair back in a pony tail and cut it off for "Locks of Love". If you are not familiar with this organization...they make hair pieces for cancer children. Anyway, she loves her new doo and so do I. Her goal for this year is to get back into shape and remake her look. The haircut was a great start and she looks beautiful. Of course, I'm prejudice. lol.

If you missed CBS evening news last night...they did a segment about our elephant sanctuary. It was the story of Tara the elephant and Bella the doggie and their great attachment to one another. It was a wonderful piece and I'm so proud to be a contributor to the sanctuary. You can read about it at www.elephants.com.

Hugs, Joyce

2008-12-31T09:02:00.001-06:00

After serious & cautious consideration.....your contract of friendship has been renewed for the New Year 2009! It was a very hard decision to make.
So try not to screw it up!!!

My Wish for You in 2009

May peace break into your house and may thieves come to steal your debts. May the pockets of your jeans become a magnet of $100 bills. May love stick to your face like Vaseline and may laughter assault your lips! May your clothes smell of success like smoking tires and may happiness slap you across the face and may your tears be that of joy. May the problems you had forget your home address! In simple words ............ May 2009 be the best year of your life!!!

Huggies Ya'll

Random Thoughts and a tag

2008-12-29T16:16:00.001-06:00

Just a few more days in 2008. It's time to reflect, to think about those that were lost this year and to remember the events that formed our year...both globally and personally.

The big thing for me in 2008 is that I turned 62 and was able to start my social security. I was living on my retirement check alone and it was difficult to make ends meet. My SS check has brought me to a comfort level that makes it possible to no longer worry about finances. Life is good.

The next wonderful thing in 2008 for me is that I decided to adopt another kitty and brought Gizmo into my life. It's hard to explain to folks that 'just don't get it', the joy that a pet can bring. It's especially wonderful for someone who lives alone. She has taken over and is now the Queen of the apartment. And, the most wonderful thing is - are you ready for this - she doesn't shed. I don't know why (and don't care) but this kitty does NOT shed a hair. I love that. I'm so easy to please huh.

The world waits to see what our new president will do to make a difference in the future of America. While I did not vote for Pres. Elect Obama, I am the first to admit that the results of this election was an historical event. I am pleased that our country has come so far. I wonder if Rosa Parks or even Martin Luther King thought this would ever happen? As I've said before, it's a long way from the bottom of a slave ship to the White House. What an amazing (and often sad and disgraceful) journey. My g/daughter is bi-racial (as you can see from her pictures). Some time ago I found the complete set of the TV mini-series "Roots" and bought it for her. She and I sat and watched it together and I answered her questions as we went. Her dad was so surprised and grateful that I did that and later borrowed them to show his other daughter. Just as I want to know my history (from the French and the Irish side), I felt it was important for Jackie to understand hers.

Anyway, this was intended to be a short note. So much for that. Have a great week everyone. And btw Beth, your guys killed my guys in the game yesterday. Grrrr.

Hugs, Joyce

Time to look toward 2009

2008-12-26T13:13:00.005-06:00

Yay, Yankees Candles!

A rare moment for brother and sister.

My beautiful Jackie.

My handsome (and toothless) Brandon.

I hope everyone had as nice a holiday as I did. Just our little family together for good eats, gift giving and lot's of love and fellowship. We do the majority of our Christmas celebrating on Christmas Eve. We had planned a meal for Christmas Day but my daughter had a splitting headache (Christmas let-down I think) so we moved it until this afternoon. Nothing fancy...just a ham, potato salad, a couple of veggies and dinner rolls. And since this is the South, we can't forget the sweet tea. My granddaughter is at her dad's so it will just be my oldest son, my daughter and g/son and me. Like I said, nothing fancy.

I got some really nice gifts from the kids. I'm hard to buy for, mostly because I really don't need anything. I did get a couple of pretty nightgowns and a blouse from daughter. Also got some good smelling candles from the kids. My son got me three pairs of small hoop earrings (I love them) and wrapped them in a pretty sea shell box with a cross lid...really pretty. He also got me some good old Yankee Candles (my absolute favorite candles). My favorite gift was a Titan's coffee mug. Who'd a thunk it huh? lol. I also got jumbo cashews, a can of cookies, a box of chocolates, cheese and sausages and a bag of dum dums (little suckers) and candy canes from the g/kids. I think they are trying to fatten me up. lol. I really had to laugh at the dum dums because I always keep a container of them on my table for the kids when they come in. So they really just took care of themselves with that gift.

Anyway, that's my Christmas. Now I've got to try to catch up with everyone else. It was really odd not to be computing and visiting blogs for a few days. It feels like its' been a month. I'm sure it will take me a couple days to get to everyone. I can't wait to see how everyone else spent the holiday.

Hugs, Joyce

Happy Holidays and Tags

2008-12-20T18:45:00.004-06:00

This will be my last entry until after Christmas. I have lot's to do, with helping my g/kids wrap their treasures and make cards. Then there is the food preparation (that is not my favorite thing to do). All to get to the Christmas Eve and Christmas Day celebration. Anyway, I said all that to say...I don't want the puter to take me away from this fabulous time of year. So, I am turning it off tonight and will (try) not turn it on again until after Christmas.

I want to thank Ken and Beth for the lovely Christmas card. That was so thoughtful of you. I have received several cards this year and enjoyed them so much. That kind of makes me ashamed that I gave up card sending. I think I will revisit that decision next year. lol. I also got a lovely Christmas gift from my wonderful step-son (in Indy). I collect dolphins and he sent me the most beautiful dolphin wind chime. I'll have to take a photo of it after Christmas so you can see it.

Anyway, I just wanted to get the last of my Christmas tags out and wish everyone a Happy Holiday. May we all be surrounded by our loved ones, may those that are traveling be safe and may all your Christmas wishes come true.

Hugs, Joyce

Thinking of Christmas

2008-12-16T23:29:00.001-06:00

I just wanted to drop a quick note to say that all is well here. I was not able to get my injection this morning as planned, due to an ice event. It was just bad enough here to close schools in our county and two other counties that I had to travel through to get there. I would have had to leave home around 6:30 in the morning so thought better of it. I will reschedule later.

I'm hoping to get to Walmart tomorrow morning to get what I will need for our Christmas Eve gathering. It is our family tradition to have a kind of snack night and open our gifts from each other. We will have deli ham and cheese for sandwiches. My daughter makes rotel dip, pigs in a blanket, deviled eggs and sausage balls. I make potato salad, spinach dip in Hawaiian bread, onion dip and chips and Christmas cookies. And of course, egg nog. It is my favorite day of the year. I love seeing their faces as they open the things I've bought for each of them. I put a great deal of thought into what I give so they are always happy with their gifts.

My family has been so fortunate this year. My daughter struggles (financially) but the boys do ok and I am comfortable too. We will all have nice gifts and enjoy each other on Christmas Eve. My granddaughter has a girlfriend who told her that her family doesn't believe in celebrating Christmas and they aren't having it. I happen to know this family and it is so not true. The child is embarrassed to say that they have no money this year and so have decided to just act like it is just another day. Both parents have lost their jobs in the last couple of months. They are not alone. This year, more than any other year, people need help. We need to pull angels off the angel trees and put clothes and toys into the boxes around town and give food to the food bank. We can all make a small difference if we just do these little things.

Hugs, Joyce

A Scare, Snow and a Couple of Tags

2008-12-13T10:18:00.004-06:00

I can't believe a week has gone by without an entry from me. Time is such an interesting thing. It slows down when it wants and speeds up when you need more of it. This week started out pretty stressful for me. for the first time in my life I dialed 911 and let me tell you, I had to be really scared to do that for myself. I truly thought I was having a heart attack. I was sitting in my recliner with Gizmo asleep in my lap and I had just started watching the new "Hulk" movie when... all of a sudden my heart started racing and my chest tightened up (no pain at all, just tightness) and I felt like I might pass out. I pushed Giz off my lap and sat up straight hoping it would go away. It didn't so I reached for the phone a dialed. Just as I was dialing my neighbor Danny knocked on the door and yelled "I have homemade oatmeal cookies". LOL. If I hadn't been so scared I would have laughed. Anyway, in less than 5 minutes (I love my little town) I had a living room full of police and paramedics checking me out. At the hospital they took every test imaginable and it was not my heart. The only thing they can figure out is that my thyroid medicine was not nearly strong enough and that is what caused the episode. Anyway, I just told a long story to say I am fine and have not had any problems since. I have just kind of taken it easy all week.

I wrapped most of my gifts this week. I just lack a few things. I got a 'kid-sized' skateboard for Brandon and haven't figured out how I'm going to wrap it yet. My little apartment looks Christmasy with the little tree and my beautiful porcelain nativity set. I also have a crocheted Santa that an on-line friend made me last year. You put a coffee can in it and fill it with goodies. (Thank you again Carol.) And I want to again thank Linda in Washington for the book and the calendar. I will read the book after I finish with "Cross Country" by Patterson.

Tuesday I go back for my second epidural steroid injection for my back. It's still not where I would like it to be, but maybe this second injection will do the trick. I really thought I would grow old gracefully but so far, not so much...lol.

Almost forgot to tell you, we had SNOW this week. About 2 inches. It was not predicted and even as it fell the local weather lady was saying we MIGHT see a little snow mixed in the rain. Boy, did she miss it this time. Of course, it caused the schools to be closed yesterday and the kids loved that. Everyone gets so excited when we get any snow because we get so little and some years, none. I can't ever remember seeing snow here in December. Most of it has melted now, but it sure was pretty for a while.

OK, enough rambling. I hope you are all having a wonderful weekend.
Hugs, Joyce

Grounded and Cold

2008-12-05T16:33:00.004-06:00

My little tree looked so cute when Jackie got finished decorating.
We put it on top of a 5 1/2 foot shelf.
Of course, when I got up this morning my tree was on the floor and
the little ornaments scattered everywhere. GIZMO!!!!!!
We sure thought we had put it where she couldn't get it.
I'm going to have Jackie put it back up and just lock Gizmo in the
bedroom at night and when I'm in here computing. So, I guess
you could say "she's grounded'. LOL

Brrrrr, baby it's cold outside. It never got out of the 30's today and it's supposed to be 20 tonight. I am definitely a warm weather lady. How long until Summer gets here? I know I'm wishing my life away but I would love to sit in my back yard with a good book and a cold drink soaking up the WARM sun.

My daughter still has some shopping to do for the kids so we are heading to Walmart tomorrow. Not during the day, no way. We are going about 10:00 P.M. after most people have given it up for the day. This town usually rolls up the sidewalks by 9 but since a 24 hour Walmart appeared on the scene, some of us venture out later. I just need to get all the wrapping paper and gift boxes etc. that I need to wrap. I wish I had gone out after Christmas last year and got all that.

Have a great weekend everyone.
Hugs, Joyce

Just a little updating chatter today...

2008-12-03T15:17:00.002-06:00

Winter has arrived with a vengeance in much of the country. Even here in the South of TN we had snow showers on Monday. Boy were the kids excited. It only stuck on the cars and roofs though and didn't last long. Tonight's low is supposed to be 24 with a high of 38 tomorrow. Oh my goodness. I guess this old bear will hibernate. LOL.

OK, I'm going to talk about my cat again. Sorry, I just can't help it. First of all Gizmo is a girl and I stole her name from Sonya's cat at
My Southern Home. I just thought it was a cute name but I guess it would be better suited for a boy cat. Oh well, she is stuck with it now.
I should have called her fearless because she is not afraid of the things most cats are afraid of. For example, she loves riding in the car and a pet carrier is not necessary. She just sits in my lap and looks out the window. Also, she likes water. If I want to take a shower alone I have to lock her out. She jumps right in and I end up having to blow dry her (which she also doesn't mind). But the best thing is she doesn't shed (yet). Smokey was a bad shedder and I was constantly using a sticky roller on everything. This may change, but for now I'm lovin' it. OK, enough about Gizmo.

I had decided not to put out any of my Christmas goodies this year. Gizmo is one reason and laziness is the other. Well, my g/daughter wasn't having it. She came down Sunday and set up my little tree (on a high shelf) and decorated it. She also put out my big porcelain nativity and some other things and hung my wreath on the door. She said she would help me wrap stuff after I get hers wrapped and carry everything to her house so Gizmo wouldn't get into it. We do Christmas Eve down there so that works for me. She's a good kid and that's a brag (but true).

I guess I will get going. I hear the school bus and I'm watching my g/son this afternoon while his mom and sister go to the clinic. I think they both have sinus infections, which are so bad in this part of the country. I don't know anyone who doesn't suffer with sinus problems.
Enjoy the rest of your week.

Hugs, Joyce

Gizmo, A funny and a tag to snag

2008-11-30T18:22:00.006-06:00

Since I have absolutely nothing new to tell, I thought I would at least put out a tag to snag (and tag or have tagged) and a couple of photo's of Gizmo. The kitty at the puter is NOT Gizmo but sure looks like her.
Have a great week everyone.
Hugs, Joyce

2008-11-28T10:27:00.000-06:00

Happy day after Thanksgiving everyone. I hope your's was as nice as mine. We just had our little family but the food was wonderful and the company the best.

I didn't actually shop Black Friday but my daughter did. Her reaction???
NEVER AGAIN! She only went to Walmart here in town but she said it was awful. She got there at 4:30 and had to stand in line to get in. Some people had been there all night and grabbed up everything and then just hung around until 5:00 A.M. to pay for it. She was able to get Brandon a camouflage coat for $8.00 and a couple pair of jeans for Jackie for $8.00 each. She brought Jackie and Brandon to me at 4:25 this morning and I put one on the couch and one in my recliner and me and Gizmo went back to bed...lol. I'm finished with my shopping. I just have to get some wrapping paper now and get the stuff wrapped, but that's the fun stuff.

Anyway, enjoy your long weekend (for those of you who work) and fill up on leftovers. That's what I'm fixin' to do. (That's TN talk for 'getting ready to do'.)

Hugs, Joyce

2008-11-26T22:26:00.000-06:00

2008-11-25T16:33:00.001-06:00

Thank you Alice AsAlwaysAlice for my award. My list is short since so many have already received the award and I wanted to pimp some blogs that don't have it yet. There are so many good journals that we could do this forever and never get them all. I hope you will drop in and visit the ones that I've listed. And they are...

Monica Monica's Mindless Mumblings

Marlene One Day At A Time... also known as... Nice People in Googletown

Bethe Palm Harbor

Winivere Woman in the Glass Box

Penny Growin' Old Gracelessly

Linda My Thotful Spot

Huggies y'all, Joyce

2008-11-23T16:10:00.003-06:00

OK, for all the bragging I've done about the Titan's, I guess I have to tell when they lose too. The Jet's got us good today. It wasn't even a nail-biter, just a big win for the Jets. It would have been nice to continue to be undefeated, but I'm not crying. We are still doing really well this year and will make the play-offs. So all is well.

So, in 1983 I had a hysterectomy. I was in the hospital for five days with morphine and a tens unit and thought I might die. I continued to recuperate at home for another week or two and milked it for all it was worth. Now, here's this little kitty who was cut open on Monday and by Tuesday afternoon was chasing a ball around the living room. I never gave her all the pain meds because she was obviously not in any pain by day three. What's up with that? Does it take human's longer to recover because we are aware. Did Gizmo miss the memo that said "you are supposed to be sick for a while"?

My granddaughter and grandson are both trying to earn money to buy Mom Christmas gifts. My apartment has never been so clean. Of course, I am a sucker and over pay them and let them clean things that aren't really in need of cleaning. Jackie wants to buy her mother some much needed clothes and has earned $60.00 so far. Brandon (age 7) wants to buy her some Sand and Sable cologne and has earned $20.00. I think they both have enough for their goals (thank goodness) so maybe I won't go broke. lol. Jackie is always a big help to me anyway (for no pay) so I don't mind doing this for them. Just so they understand that the buck stops at Christmas.

Well, I guess I will go eat a bite. I promised Brandon I would make him some Monkey Bread after I had supper. Jackie knows how to make it but he says mine is better. I think he just wants to visit and talk me to death. Boy that child can talk (I love him though). Hope everyone has a good week.

Hugs, Joyce

Snow, food, prayer request and an update

2008-11-21T11:01:00.004-06:00

I just wanted to send some snowy wishes to all you who are looking into a white weekend. I can't believe this weather for November. It feels more like January or February here. Our high today is only 38 (normal would be upper 50's) and low tonight in the teens. Can you say Brrrrrrr. It fools you when you look outside at the bright sunshine, but I got a reality check when I went out to take the trash. I am definately a warm weather person...lol.

A couple of my friends (from where I used to work) and I have been trying set up a lunch or dinner date forever. Something always seems to come up and today is not exception. My good friend called me from the airport in Nashville to tell me her nephew was in a serious auto accident and they don't have much hope for survival. It's bad when anyone is hurt, but seems so much worse when it's a young person AND around the holidays. Anyway, if anyone prays please remember Trudy's nephew.

I'm so grateful for my children and grandchildren. They are all healthy and we will all be together for Thanksgiving and Christmas. What a blessing that is. We are few in number (compared to most families who were raised here) but we love each other and we always enjoy the holidays together. Since I gave up my house for this small apartment, my daughter has taken over as hostess to both holiday gatherings. Of course, we all bring something and I still cook a great deal of the dinner. It's pretty convenient since I just live a few doors away. My oldest son always does the pumpkin pie and the cole slaw. He likes the kitchen...lol. I will do the veggie casseroles and yams and daughter will do the turkey and stuffing and rolls. Makes my mouth water just thinking about it. Are you doing dinner at your house? Do you cook for a crowd or just a few?

I guess I will end this with a happy thought... my back is doing sooooo much better. I can't tell you how happy that makes me. I will probably go for the second injection just to be safe but I think I'm good to go for a while. And Giz is doing great. She is leaving the incision alone so far. Hope she continues to do that until we get the stiches out next Wednesday. Have a great weekend.

Hugs, Joyce

Update and a older tag

2008-11-18T11:43:00.002-06:00

Here I am again. Just a short note to say that Gizmo came through her little surgery well. I picked her up at 3 p.m. yesterday and she slept until this morning. Animals are so great. They don't know they are supposed to be bedridden after surgery so she is pretty happy to walk around and jump up on the bed without much discomfort. I gave her the pain medication this morning anyway (just to be safe) and she is now sleeping again. She doesn't appear to be mad at me...lol.

I don't know if I did too much yesterday or what, but my back is acting up today. Not horrible, but worse then the previous day. I guess I'm just going to have to learn how to manage this for the rest of my life. Oh well.

That's it for now. I am slowly catching up with all your blogs and will continue to do that today. Hope everyone is doing well and staying warm. It's brrrrrr cold here.

Hugs, Joyce

2008-11-16T10:26:00.004-06:00

Hello everyone. Looks like old man winter has arrived here in TN. It got down into the 20's last night and the high today is only 46...brrrrrrrr!!!! Think I'll just stay in and wait for the Titan's game this afternoon. Of course, the whole world knows they are playing game #10 without a loss so far. What a difference a year makes. Of course, I'm not a fair weather fan. I always watch them and love them win or lose.

On Tuesday I went to my Ortho doctor and he decided (with my help...lol) to let me try the epidural steroid injection again. So, I had it on Thursday morning. Friday was NOT a good day but yesterday and today it is much better. I do think I will have to do the whole series (or at least the second injection) as I am still not able to make it very long without some kind of pain meds. Today I stopped taking the hard stuff and switched to Ibuprophen 800's. So far so good. I am going to try to catch up with all my blog reading in the next couple of days. I'm so sorry for being so absent for the past couple of weeks.

Tomorrow morning Mz. Gizmo will be having her hysterectomy (lol). I put it off due to my back but it is soooo time. She is 6 months old and it won't be long before she goes into heat and I sure don't want that. She is such good company and a little sweetie. She's very loving and just a big purr bucket, but she also loves to play. The grand kids have a big time with her. It will be a year next month that I lost Smokey and it was time to stop grieving.

Ok, enough for now. Hope everyone is well and enjoying their weekend.

Hugs, Joyce

Not back yet but....

2008-11-14T12:54:00.003-06:00

Just a quick note to say I am still among the living. My back problems have kept me almost completely isolated from the computer and I have missed you all very much. Hopefully I will be back on track next week and can do a decent entry then. I just wanted to get these Thanksgiving tags out that I made previously. I still have a couple of fall tags to post too, but maybe tomorrow. Hope everyone is well.

Hugs, Joyce

Random Thoughts

2008-11-03T12:43:00.003-06:00

I'm still down in my back. What a pain (literally). Can't sit here very long due to the pain. I guess if it's not better by the end of the week I will have to go visit the Bone and Joint Clinic. It seems to have been my home away from home over the last few years. I've had both knees totally replaced and I had a compression fracture due to a fall a few years ago that gives me a fit occasionally. The thing that has me right now is due to degenerative disc disease. Nothing life threatening but it sure can hurt. Giving injections in my lower spine usually does the trick for a long time but you can only get them every two to three years. I can't remember when I had the last one so we will see.

My feelings about my ex-husband's death snuck up on me. We didn't have a horrible divorce and were still speaking. We were married almost 15 years and he is my grandchildren's step-Grandpa (or Papa they called him). I had only talked to him a couple of times since he remarried last October. He moved back to Indiana this past Memorial Day weekend and I talked to my step-son more than I did him. I'm going through my photo's and making a little album for my step-son, of photo's of his Dad (and some with him in them) that I took over the years. I will send it to him on his birthday, which is just before Christmas. Just a little keepsake of happier times and good memories.

My neighbor (the one who likes to cook for all us older folks) just brought me some home made soup, or what he calls hamburger stew. It smells wonderful. That will be my supper tonight. He is such a nice person. You wouldn't believe how much candy he put in the kid's bags on Halloween. Just big handful's at a time. I think he was having more fun than the kids. lol.

Well, I better get off of here and hit the heating pad again for a while. Hope everyone is having a good week. Hugs, Joyce

A BRAG AND A TAG

2008-11-02T15:41:00.002-06:00

A preview of the kiddies at my house last night

2008-11-01T13:41:00.002-05:00

They came in large groups and I have no candy left...which is probably a good thing.

They started coming before dark and by eight I had to close the door and turn off the

lights 'cause I was out of candy. I really didn't have many after 8:00 p.m. though so

I didn't feel too bad. Besides, I pulled my back out on Thursday and was really struggling

to get through it. I love seeing all the kids though, especially the little ones.

Hope everyone had as much fun at their house.

Hugs, Joyce

Happy Halloween

2008-10-30T23:23:00.000-05:00

REALLY, REALLY SHORT ENTRY

2008-10-27T22:45:00.001-05:00

GIZMO IS A GIRL

TENNESSEE TITANS ARE NOW 7 AND 0

SORRY FOR THE COLTS, BUT

PSYCHED FOR US.

GOOD NIGHT ALL.

Tags, Some Good News and Some Sad News

2008-10-27T13:56:00.007-05:00

First the good news. I went to the SPCA over the weekend and this is what I got.

Meet Gizmo...my new room mate.

I'm still not able to upload these graphics correctly so in the interest of time they are seem small.

Now for the bad news...

My ex-husband passed away this morning. I knew it was coming because my

Step-Son has been keeping me informed. He was only 57 years old and married to

his current wife less than a year. I could go into the many reasons he died so

young, but it doesn't matter now. I hope he's in a better place and happy.

This is the second husband I have now outlived. The father of my children

died of a heart attack at age 40.

Anyway, I hope everyone has a nice week.

Hugs, Joyce

More Halloween Tags

2008-10-26T11:39:00.011-05:00

Hello all. Nothing new here, unless you want to hear about my fabulous homemade TV dinner from the church. They are really good. Last night I had BBQ chicken, black eyed peas, turnip greens and applesauce. Yum Yum! I couldn't finish it all. Now, beat that for $2.00. I hope they continue doing this throughout the year. It's really a wonderful thing for someone living alone.

Anyway, I just wanted to get a couple more Halloween tags out. Only a few more days.

I have spent the last hour trying to upload a couple of animated tags and Blogger won't load them. I finally gave up and put these out. I'll try again later (or tomorrow).

Enjoy your Sunday everyone. Hugs, Joyce